Extras Dec 15, Loading comments… Trouble loading? This is due to the hormonal changes and can make you feel extremes of either of the emotions. My first time after all those years was odd; it was as if my reality shifted about half an inch in an unexpected direction. In the survey quoted above, 68 percent of year olds in Japan said they were virgins; a study carried out that year in Europe by condom maker Durex found virginity rates among those aged were much lower.
By the way, she told me all of this while we were naked and in bed.
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Post losing your virginity, you may have emotional outbursts, both happy and sad. The next morning she woke up and asked me if we had sex last night. Newsletters Sign up for the latest news and to win free tickets to events. I am 41 and gay and have always lived in a small town with very limited access to any kind of gay community. He was noooot having that shit.